Lesson 1: Identify Your Procrastination Triggers
Procrastination often feels like an innate character flaw or lack of willpower, but the reality is that it's typically triggered by specific situations, emotions, or tasks. The first step in overcoming procrastination is identifying your unique triggers so you can anticipate them and develop strategies to counteract their pull.
Common procrastination triggers include:
- Unpleasant or boring tasks. We're wired to seek pleasure and avoid pain, so tasks perceived as tedious or unenjoyable are easy to continually put off. Recognize activities you chronically avoid and make a plan to get them done quickly.
- Lack of clarity or overwhelm. When goals and next steps are vague, our motivation suffers. Break down ambiguous projects into clear, discrete tasks so you know exactly where to start.
- Perfectionism and fear of failure. The concern that you won't complete something perfectly can be paralyzing. Challenge inner critics and focus on doing your best, not being the best.
- Lack of interest or meaning. It's hard to motivate yourself to work on tasks that you see no value in. Connect daily work to larger goals that excite you.
- Fatigue and low energy. When your willpower and focus are depleted, procrastination comes easily. Schedule demanding work for when you're most alert.
- Lack of accountability and structure. Without deadlines and oversight, tasks easily slip through the cracks. Set deadlines and share goals to create accountability.
Take an honest look at your daily habits and identify: Which types of tasks do you put off most? When during the day do you tend to procrastinate? What emotions precede your procrastination? What situations or environments trigger it? Your triggers likely tie into primal needs and psychological dynamics. Bring them into your awareness.
Once you know your procrastination triggers, you can anticipate and plan for them. For example, if unclear tasks trigger you, block time to break down projects each morning. If you procrastinate when tired, schedule creative work during your peak energy hours. Identify your patterns and experiment with changes to disrupt them.
Lesson 2: The "Lizard Brain" and Instant Gratification
The human brain evolved over millions of years into a complex organ, but its most primal regions drive many of our impulses and habitual behaviors. Scientists often refer to the basal ganglia and limbic system - the brain sections controlling emotion, instinct, and memory - as the "lizard brain." It pushes us to seek pleasure, avoid danger, and exert as little energy as possible. That delivered survival advantages for early humans in the wild, but today, it often works against our best intentions.
The lizard brain prioritizes instant gratification over long-term fulfillment. It will incline you to procrastinate on challenging tasks in favor of feel-good activities like social media or entertainment. People with strong lizard brain influences may spend hours avoiding an unpleasant chore that would take just 20 minutes. Evolution hasn't caught up to the modern need for discipline and strategic goal achievement.
Outsmarting the lizard brain starts with awareness. Notice when you're tempted to procrastinate on important work in favor of quick hits of dopamine from distractions. Then, you can use cognitive strategies:
- Frame tasks in terms of immediate benefits vs. delayed costs. Losing an hour on social media means losing an hour of free time later.
- Adjust your environment and remove distractions. The lizard brain loses power when you eliminate temptation.
- Appeal to the rational brain. Make a list of reasons and long-term benefits to motivate your prefrontal cortex.
- Meditate or visualize the future reward before starting unpleasant tasks. This activates the rational brain.
- Promise yourself an enjoyable activity after completing an important task. It's okay to reward yourself after exercising self-control.
With practice, you can strengthen your willpower and rational mind to override the lizard brain's impulses. Don't fight it - work with your brain's tendencies while expanding them for your benefit.
Lesson 3: Perfectionism is Paralyzing
For many procrastinators, the root cause is perfectionism. When our standards are impossibly high, getting started feels pointless because we know we can't achieve that level of perfection. This maladaptive cognitive distortion derails many creative and ambitious people. Though the intent is to produce excellence, perfectionism often has the opposite effect - halting meaningful progress dead in its tracks.
Perfectionists see effort as inadequate unless it yields flawless results. But any endeavor involves missteps and gradual improvements, especially creative and intellectual work. If you paralyze yourself waiting for perfect conditions or results, you'll never accomplish your goals. You have to accept imperfection as part of the process.
Here are helpful mindset shifts for perfectionists to overcome procrastination:
- Progress, not perfection, is the goal. Focus on moving forward rather than doing something flawlessly.
- Done is better than perfect. Finishing and shipping work trumps endless tweaks.
- Excellence is subjective and ever-changing. What you consider great work will evolve as you learn and grow.
- Allow yourself to be a beginner. All growth starts from novice attempts, not mastery.
- See failures as data and feedback. Each mistake shows you how to improve for next time.
- Focus on the process, not the product. Engagement and effort are within your control, but results involve many variables.
- Celebrate small wins. Completing parts of a large project provides motivation to continue.
Perfectionism protects your ego by avoiding failure, but it denies you opportunities to learn, grow and produce meaningful work. Strive for excellence through practice and honest effort, not unrealistic standards.
Lesson 4: Start Small and Build Momentum
Large, complex projects can feel so daunting that it's hard to even begin. When the finish line is far from sight, motivation evaporates. That's why "start small" is a key principle for combating procrastination.
The human brain is wired to favor quick, visible results that deliver an immediate dopamine hit. Starting with bite-sized tasks creates that desired sense of accomplishment to get you rolling. With each small win, you build the momentum that enables bigger achievements.
Here are effective ways to use the "start small" strategy:
- Break large goals into subtasks. A book becomes writing one page a day. A cleaned house becomes tidying one room.
- Timebox tasks into short increments. Commit to a large project for just 15 or 30 minutes, reducing the intimidation factor.
- Tackle the easiest parts first. Knock out simple or fun tasks to experience quick wins and get energized.
- Make it tiny. Can't write the whole report? Just open the document and write the title. Tiny progress is still progress.
- Focus on process, not product. Rather than pressuring yourself to finish something, set a goal of brainstorming ideas or doing research.
- Celebrate small wins. Mark each completed subtask on a checklist. Give yourself credit for moving forward.
When you break intimidating goals into bite-sized chunks and celebrate small progress, you build the momentum, confidence, and motivation needed to power through to the end. Tiny steps accumulate into big change.
Lesson 5: The Power of the "Just One Minute" Rule
Procrastinators can spend more time agonizing over starting a task than it would take to simply do it. Dreading and avoiding work often takes more energy than pushing through would require. Turn this habit on its head with the "Just One Minute" rule.
Tell yourself you'll work on a dreaded task for just one minute. Set a timer for 60 seconds and start. Once engaged, you'll often find momentum carries you beyond that first minute. But even if you stop after a minute, you've built the habit of getting started - which is half the battle.
The benefits of the "Just One Minute" rule:
- Overcomes inertia and blank page paralysis. Doing any amount overcomes not doing anything.
- Low stakes and commitment. One minute feels easy and achievable.
- Momentum effect. Once started, continuing often feels easier than stopping.
- Practice engaging. Builds the habit and mindset of diving into work.
- Loosens "perfectionist thinking." Realize tasks don't have to be done flawlessly or completely.
Apply this technique for various procrastination triggers:
- Unpleasant tasks: Commit to just tackling the worst part for one minute.
- Lack of clarity: Spend one minute brainstorming a direction instead of over-analyzing.
- Perfectionism: Challenge yourself to write one imperfect paragraph.
- Fatigue: Tell yourself you'll work for one minute before taking a break.
Don't let yourself deliberate or analyze endlessly. Just set a timer and start. With regular practice, those small starts will build unstoppable momentum.
Lesson 6: Develop Routines and Rituals
Humans are creatures of habit. About 40% of our daily actions occur in almost the exact same situations repeatedly, from brushing our teeth to driving the same routes. We outsource many repetitive tasks to the basal ganglia, freeing our minds for higher-level thinking. But this auto-pilot mode also means we repeat unproductive patterns like procrastination unless we intentionally create better habits. That's where routines and rituals come in.
Routines are consistent sequences of behavior regularly performed at certain times or in certain situations. Rituals are routines infused with deeper meaning or intention. Both leverage the power of habit to help you overcome procrastination.
For example, you might establish a morning routine of exercising for 30 minutes as soon as you wake up. You could turn it into a ritual by using the time to also meditate and express gratitude. The added meaning helps the habit stick.
Here are some routines and rituals that thwart procrastination:
- Morning motivation ritual: Visualize your goals, express gratitude, and engage in uplifting media. Prime yourself for focused action.
- Daily planning routine: Review your to-do list and schedule, establishing the day's top priorities before anything else.
- Weekly review ritual: Reflect on accomplishments and lessons from the week each Sunday to start the next week focused.
- "Shutdown" routine: Straighten workspace, list tomorrow's first tasks, reflect on the day. Creates closure.
- "Ready to work" routine: After a break, take three deep breaths, stretch, and drink water to transition back into focus.
- "Overwhelm reset" ritual: When you feel overwhelmed, go for a 5 minute walk outside to physically and mentally regroup.
Leverage the power of habit with routines that optimize performance, and enrich them with ritual meaning. Reject autopilot and intentionally design your day.
Lesson 7: Track Your Progress and Reward Yourself
A problem with procrastination is the gap between starting a task and seeing results. With no momentum or finish line in sight, motivation fizzles. That's why tracking progress and milestones is crucial. Visual evidence of progress keeps you motivated. Celebrating wins along the way offers bursts of encouragement when you need them.
Tracking progress:
- Use checklists to mark subtasks completed. Visual proof of action combats feeling stuck.
- apps to watch meaningful metrics rise. Seeing progress fuels further effort.
- Graph outputs over time, like sales or pages written. Visuals reveal your trajectory.
- Take progress photos over time. Seeing tangible changes boosts morale.
- Make tasks more granular to increase opportunities to track progress. More milestones.
Celebrating progress:
- Attach rewards to specific milestones to stay focused on the next target.
- Share your progress with others. Accountability and praise helps motivation.
- Review how far you've come during low motivation moments. Rediscover your progress.
- Reframe slip-ups not as failures but data showing where you still need work.
- Let yourself fully enjoy accomplishment before moving the finish line. Savor small wins.
Daily tracking provides ongoing motivation, while celebrating progress recharges you to keep going. Make progress visible and take time to appreciate it.
Lesson 8: Tackle Unpleasant Tasks First
Mark Twain famously said, “Never put off till tomorrow what you can do the day after tomorrow.” We’ve all fallen prey to this attitude, avoiding less pleasant tasks even when we pay a price later for delaying them. This common procrastination tendency can be overcome by retraining yourself to get unpleasant tasks done early.
Tackling the “eat your frog” tasks — your biggest or most undesirable responsibilities — first thing empowers you in multiple ways:
- You get the task done and over with rather than letting it ruin your mood all day.
- Checking it off your list is energizing and creates a sense of momentum.
- Knowing it’s done alleviates mental clutter and free up bandwidth for other tasks.
- You can proceed to more pleasant tasks without dread or distraction.
- Completing tough tasks first builds confidence in your self-discipline throughout the day.
To implement this habit:
- In the evening, identify your 1-3 “frogs” for tomorrow and determine when you’ll tackle them first thing.
- Devote your freshest mental energy to power through the task as fast as possible.
- Give yourself an energetic reward after completing the unpleasant task, like a walk or favorite treat.
- Remind yourself of the growing sense accomplishment as you continue checking off frogs each day.
Leaning into discomfort and resistance pays compound interest over time in the form of inner confidence, motivation, and the ability to consistently execute on hard things. What frogs will you eat tomorrow?
Lesson 9: Minimize Distractions
Our willpower has a limited reservoir, and every distraction drains that precious resource. Email notifications, social media pings, cluttered workspaces, interrupting colleagues, phone calls — entropy surrounds us. The cumulative effect is profound. One study found office workers average just three minutes on any task before being interrupted or self-interrupting. This fragmentation destroys productivity, focus and quality of work.
To combat distractions:
- Set devices to airplane mode and disable notifications during focused work periods.
- Block distracting websites and apps via web browser extensions or productivity software.
- Establish and communicate rules against interruptions for your team. “Deep work hours” each day.
- Try noise-cancelling headphones or listening to white noise/ambient music to dampen distractions.
- Declutter and organize your physical and digital workspace to promote focus. Touch items once.
- Experiment with changes like switching from open floorplan to private office. Every bit of reduced distraction helps.
- Let calls go to voicemail and batch process emails just 2-3x daily. Constant reactivity scatters attention.
Distractions can become addictive habits as we seek stimulation and avoidance. But you have agency to thoughtfully craft a focused work environment. Defend your mind like a castle and direct menta
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Lesson 10: Say No and Avoid Multitasking
The desire to please others and prove ourselves often pushes us to take on more tasks than we can reasonably handle, leading straight to procrastination. The overload seems so urgent that we fragment our time and constantly switch between tasks rather than engaging fully with any one priority.
Overcommitting our time and multitasking diminish the quality of our work and drain mental vitality. Learn to push back and focus on single tasks with full presence:
- Set criteria for which requests and opportunities you’ll decline based on priorities and capacity. Stick to it.
- Default to saying no first. Only reverse if the request aligns with predetermined criteria.
- When accepting a request, inquire if another commitment could be taken off your plate to free up bandwidth.
- Batch communications and limit check-ins. Schedule focused work when you are unavailable.
- Identify your most critical project and protect time for deep, uninterrupted efforts on it.
- Consolidate similar tasks to maintain focus on one goal rather than spreading attention thinly.
- Challenge assumptions that multitasking saves time. Work rarely gets done faster or better this way.
- When interrupted, ask if the matter can wait 10 minutes while you finish your current task.
Focused presence with one task at a time is the path to excellence and meaning. Let go of false productivity and protect the time required to do great work.
Lesson 11: Define Your Core Values and Goals
Disconnection from meaning is a huge hidden driver of procrastination. When work lacks purpose, our motivation easily becomes externalized through shallow goals like praise, money, or keeping up appearances. But extrinsic motivators are fickle and fleeting. Without deeper purpose, procrastination seems totally rational — why invest effort in something you don’t truly care about?
Rediscovering inspiration requires examining your core values and defining goals derived from them. Core values are your guiding principles for life that indicate what you care about most. Goals are measurable objectives that represent steps towards fulfilling those values.
To derive motivation from meaning:
- Identify 3-5 core values that resonate with you most. Dig into why they matter.
- Audit how you currently spend time. Does it align with your values? Where is there misalignment?
- Set 1-3 month and 1-3 year “stretch” goals that live your values. Be specific on metrics.
- Visualize achieving your goals and how doing so will feel emotionally when you need motivation.
- Evaluate daily priorities by whether they serve your goals and move you toward core values.
- Recommit to your goals and values any time you feel unmotivated. Recall the meaning behind them.
When connected to a purpose in alignment with your most cherished values, motivation comes easily. Procrastination loses its grip through the pull of deeper fulfillment.
Lesson 12: Focus on Intrinsic Motivation
Carrots and sticks can work in the short term, but lasting motivation comes from within. While extrinsic motivators like money or acclaim can nudge action, intrinsic motivation stems from genuine interest and meaning. It’s fueled by purpose rather than pressure. Studies show internal drives produce better long-term results across domains like health, education and creativity.
Some ways to tap into intrinsic motivation:
- Connect tasks to larger goals or values that matter to you, not external rewards. How does it serve your purpose?
- Focus on the process, learning and growth. Results are secondary to engagement and self-improvement.
- Consider how your work positively impacts or contributes to other people for inspiration.
- Remind yourself why you were drawn to the task or career originally - dig into your passion.
- Take ownership of your tasks and approach rather than looking to others’ standards. Make it personally meaningful.
- Know yourself: What types of projects get you in flow? Design or repeat those experiences.
- Emphasize mastery and self-competition. How can you improve yourself rather than comparing to others?
- Stop to appreciate and express gratitude for little accomplishments along the way.
Intrinsic rewards like purpose, growth, and community have deeper and longer-lasting motivational pull. Keep connecting your daily work to your inner why.
Lesson 13: Live in the Present Moment
Dwelling on the past and worrying about the future are surefire ways to sap motivation for the present. Underlying both is the assumption that now is not the time - that the ideal conditions exist in some other moment we regret missing or envision arriving. But real life happens right now - the only time we are ever empowered to take action.
Practicing present moment awareness helps cut through procrastination:
- Notice when your mind wanders to past regrets or future scenarios. Gently return focus to the here and now.
- When starting an unpleasant task, narrow focus to just the next small step rather than judging the whole endeavor. Just this.
- Use your senses to connect to the physical present. Notice sights, sounds, sensations occurring around you.
- During unpleasant tasks, monitor your inner experience moment-to-moment without judging it. Accept and allow inner states to pass.
- In pleasant activities, fully immerse yourself rather than mentally jumping ahead. Savor this moment.
- Remember that all moments become the past. Even future moments will be ones you remember, so make them count.
- Consider how you would advise a loved one to respond if they were in your situation right now. Meet yourself with that compassion.
The present moment is the only point where we take action. When procrastination arises, gently return to now. Meet tasks with openness, not the burden of past or future.
Lesson 14: Embrace Failure and Continuous Learning
Fear of failure plagues many procrastinators - better to avoid a task than start and risk doing it poorly in our minds. But failure is guaranteed on the path of growth. Mistakes grant the feedback to understand how to improve. Each failure inches us closer to success so long as we embrace it as data rather than self-judgment.
Adopting a growth mindset allows you to interpret setbacks as progress:
- View failures and mistakes as inputs that teach what not to do next time. Each one makes you wiser.
- Remember times you bounced back from major setbacks. Use those as proof you can fail and recover again.
- Monitor self-talk when you make a mistake. Challenge harsh self-criticism and replace it with curiosity.
- Rather than judging your abilities, judge the effectiveness of different strategies you try. Experimentation is the focus.
- Reframe "failure" as iteration or finding the way that does not work. You're collecting information.
- Allow yourself to be bad at things as you start out. Focus on enjoyment, learning, and purpose rather than comparing yourself to experts.
- Talk about missteps openly to normalize failure as part of the journey.
With a growth mindset, so-called failures lose their power over you. Each one brings you closer to success.
Lesson 15: Invest in Relationships and Community
Procrastination often accompanies isolation. Without regular social bonds, motivation fades over time unless continuously fueled by extraordinary willpower. Shared existence weaves meaning into our daily actions. Surround yourself with supportive people who energize you and nudge you past your isolated inertia.
Here are ways to tap into the power of relationships and community:
- Open up about your goals and challenges to get encouragement, accountability and new strategies.
- Find colleagues to check-in on progress, share advice, and derive meaning together. A "mastermind group."
- Collaborate on projects - teamwork sparks creativity, accountability and deeper purpose.
- Volunteer service boosts motivation by contributing to others and expanding your identity.
- If your own motivation lags, leverage others' excitement by working alongside them. Energy is contagious.
- Celebrate peers' accomplishments to ignite inspiration through positive comparison rather than envy.
- Share your small daily progress and milestones socially to crowdsource celebration.
Doing meaningful work together sustains passion through all the ups and downs. Supportive community provides the spark to overcome inertia and thrive. You've got this!
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In summary, Do It Today offers profound insights into the psychology and practice of overcoming procrastination. By identifying your unique triggers, separating your inner lizard brain from higher aspirations, focusing on progress over perfection, starting small, avoiding distractions, connecting to your values, and surrounding yourself with community, you build the mindset and habits to achieve your goals.
A few final tips for applying these lessons:
- Remember change is incremental. Don't expect to suddenly become highly productive. Celebrate small improvements.
- Struggle and resistance are normal. All growth involves setbacks. Persist through obstacles.
- Adapt suggestions to fit your own needs and style. There is no one size fits all solution.
- Be compassionate with yourself, while also pushing your comfort zone. Carrots and sticks both have a role.
- Enlist friends to discuss the book together. Shared journey magnifies motivation.
- Review the lessons before challenging days to prime yourself mentally.
- Re-read sections you find relevant when you notice procrastination creeping back.
- Don't let perfect consistency deter you. Even one productive hour is progress. Just begin again.
- Trust the process and keep your eyes on the horizon. Compound interest works wonders over time.
Procrastination appeals because it provides short-term mood boosts. But cultivating discipline leads to something far more meaningful — a sense of purpose, pride and self-efficacy. The rewards of diligently chipping away at your goals accumulate to a life well lived. Don't just read this book; embody its lessons until they become automatic. You have so much value to offer the world. Go share it!
While cultivating consistent motivation takes effort, each small victory makes the next one easier. Progress builds an upward spiral that lifts you higher than once felt possible. You can look back years from now with gratitude for the person you committed to become.
Life is happening now in each passing moment. Seize the gift of this day to take a step - however small - toward your dreams. Lay a brick in the foundation of the meaning you intend to build. Before you know it, something beautiful will arise. But remember, no masterpiece was painted in a day. It began with picking up the brush and making a mark.
You've got this. Now go do it!
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